Pick Ashley's Birthday Gifts

How do you pick gifts when it's a big occasion like Ashley's 40th birthday? It's a big deal, she's halfway there! Do you go for the single big gift, or do you go for several smaller ones?

I found a bunch of ideas that I really liked, but when it came down to it, I couldn't pick which one I thought Ashley would like the most, so instead of choosing myself, I made this site to get other people to pick for me.

So please, take five minutes and make the difficult decisions for me!